What is an end-of-life doula?
A support. A guide. A bridge.
End-of-life doulas provide non-medical services to companion in the journey of dying, death, and grief. Just as a birth doula supports the arrival of life, EOL doulas support the departure. The purpose of a doula is to walk alongside throughout the journey; to focus and be fully present by listening and supporting, reflecting, connecting to resources, advocating, and companioning with compassion and care.
My journey to becoming a doula has been a beautifully winding road. For as long as I can remember, I’ve wanted to be of service during tender and difficult situations. After attending Mueller College of Holistic Studies in San Diego, I co-founded a non-profit, BeLoved, which provided nurturing touch to the elderly and their caregivers. Upon relocating to Nashville, I transitioned into non-profit fundraising, events, and volunteer management while my husband attended mortuary school and became a funeral director. Inspired by his work, and bearing witness to the losses of our own dear friends and family members, led me to the doula path. And I feel so deeply called.
My practice is rooted in love and devotion to deep, authentic connection, seeing each individual wholly. I have served as a hospice volunteer and am currently a Death Café facilitator, Heart of the Valley End-of-Life founding member, and holistic deathcare advocate. I live in the beautiful town of Corvallis with my husband, daughter, and fur-kids.
Further information:
WebMD webpage describing the role of a death doula
New York Times article ‘Death Doulas’ Provide Aid at the End of Life
National End of Life Doula Scope of Practice
Companioning philosophy from Dr. Wolfelt's 11 Tenets of Caring for the Bereaved
Interview with Dr. Saul Ebema and Janelle Benuska on The Hospice Chaplaincy Show
Article by Suzanne Mooney in Patient Power, featuring Janelle Benuska