A channel, a vessel, a container.

The more my deathwork emerges, the more I am realizing that, for me and for those whom I’m holding space with, it’s not actually about death. It’s about uncertainty. It’s about the feelings that arise within us when we are not in control. It is about that liminal space – where we’ve neither fully left nor fully arrived – where we want to know where we are going, and we want to know where others have gone. We want to understand what is happening, and we want to know what is going to happen. We yearn for certainty so we can feel safe…